Engagement Ring Etiquette: Finding Your Perfect Ring Style

Getting engaged is such an exciting time! I remember when my partner proposed, I was over the moon. After the initial excitement died down, I started thinking about the practical side of things – how exactly should I wear my engagement ring with my wedding band? It sounds like a simple question, but I quickly realized there's more to it than meets the eye. I did some digging and experimenting, and here’s what I learned about finding the perfect ring style.

My Ring Dilemma: The Wedding Band Order

I was so confused about the "rules" of ring wearing. Should the wedding band go above or below the engagement ring? Was there a "right" way to do it? I started paying attention to how other people wore their rings, and I noticed a lot of variation. This led me to believe there probably isn’t one correct answer. I thought about what felt right for me and what looked best on my hand.

Exploring Different Ring-Wearing Traditions

One thing I discovered is that the order of the rings is often a cultural thing. I learned that in the US, it's traditional to wear the wedding band on the bottom, closest to your heart, and the engagement ring on top. The idea is that the wedding band is "sealed" in place by the engagement ring. However, I found out that in other countries, like Sweden, the tradition is the opposite – the wedding ring goes on top of the engagement ring. This made me realize that personal preference and cultural background really play a big role.

My Solution: Personal Preference Rules!

After considering all the traditions and opinions, I decided to go with what felt most comfortable and looked best to me. I tried wearing the wedding band on the bottom and the engagement ring on top, and then I switched them around. Ultimately, I preferred the look of the wedding band on the bottom. It just felt more balanced and visually appealing on my hand. I also wanted to find the perfect necklace to complement my rings. I found a stunning piece in the SumsFashion Spring Collection that perfectly matched my rings and overall style.

Speaking of finding the perfect style, I recently found this amazing necklace that I think would look great with any engagement ring. It is the DIEZI French Vintage Bohemian Big Beads Pearl Choker Necklace. I was looking for something that was both elegant and a little bit different, and this necklace definitely fits the bill. The pearls are a classic touch, but the bohemian design gives it a modern edge. I wore it to a friend's wedding and got so many compliments!

I think this necklace is so versatile. You can dress it up for a formal event or wear it with a casual outfit for a touch of elegance. I love how it adds a bit of personality to any look. You can find it here: DIEZI pearl choker necklace. It really completes my jewelry collection!

Practical Tips for Styling Your Engagement Ring

Here are a few tips I learned along the way for styling your engagement ring and wedding band:

Consider your lifestyle: If you have an active job or lifestyle, you might want to choose a simple, low-profile setting to avoid catching or damaging your ring.
Think about metal compatibility: If your engagement ring and wedding band are made of different metals, make sure they're compatible to avoid wear and tear. For example, platinum is harder than gold, so a platinum band can scratch a gold engagement ring over time.
Play with different styles: Don't be afraid to experiment with different styles of wedding bands. A simple band can complement a more elaborate engagement ring, or you can choose a band with diamonds or other embellishments for extra sparkle.
Think about necklaces: The right necklace can elevate your entire look. I love pairing my rings with a delicate chain or a statement piece, depending on the occasion.

Pros and Cons of Different Ring-Wearing Styles